Comments on: Butterfly Kisses: Do You Consider It Inappropriate For A Father To Kiss His Daughter On The Lips?

By: PJ

PJ — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 05:10:09 +0000

Judging from these comments and the fact the website seems to be American, I think it’s safe to say: Americans are bloody idiots. It’s NORMAL to kiss your daughter on the lips, whatever age she is. Yet you lots freak out about this whilst happily spanking your child’s BUTT several times a day. Freaks

By: Mimi

Mimi — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 04:35:42 +0000

Wow. This is crazy. My family has always been very affectionate. I’m a teenager now and I still get kisses from both of my parents. It’s not meant as anything creepy or sexual at all! They’re my family. It’s a way of showing that we all love eachother. I can’t immagine not kissing my dad. I didn’t realize people didn’t do that.

By: Similar to Rose

Similar to Rose — Sat, 11 Dec 2010 15:01:26 +0000

Rose, my situation is similar to yours. However, I don’t do ultimadums and I am much more confused as what to do. I am not yet married to a wonderful man who has a daughter from a previous marriage. The daughter is 8 years old and they have been kissing on the lips since she was an infant. I know it is largely due to their culture and at first it didn’t make me feel uncomfortable. It wasn’t until he would ask me to give him a kiss right after asking her the same way that it made me feel strange. I think if I was the wife and we had raised her together, I wouldn’t feel awkward. But now I do…advice??

By: rose

rose — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 17:54:13 +0000

I am married to a wonderful man who has a daughter from a previous relationship she just turned 5 and he kisses her on the lips daily. It disgusts me to no end, I think it is inappropiate and he should stop. Maybe I am being a little harsh and do not wish to have a bond with this child but I am giving an ultimadam: Only my kisses or no kisses.

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:59:04 +0000

Leah, no offense but I think your being too harsh on him. When I was young my father used to kiss me too. It’s not like he was attracted to me or anything, it was just his way of telling me he loved me. My mother did the same thing and I used to sleep with them at night also. There is nothing wrong with it at all, and in my opinion you should appologize to him.